Overcoming ourselves

On the afternoon of Tuesday, May 14, our office administrator, Paula Cadden, handed off a phone call to our associate pastor, Daniel Guenther.

The mother on the phone was calling in desperation. She was behind $2,400 in rent. Her landlord had a court date set for Thursday, May 16. Anxiety, stress, and tears rang in Daniel’s ears as he listened intently to the urgency of the mother’s pre-eviction pleadings.

Daniel made one promise. He would have an answer for the mother by midday on Wednesday.

After Pub Theology on Tuesday evening, Daniel and I talked a bit further about the mother’s situation. Interestingly, our guest at Pub Theology, Richmond radio personality, Mike King, made a point about countering the predictable “no” that we often use as a response to a question with an unexpected “yes.”

On my way home, I stopped by Trinity to secure the building. Before leaving, I sent an email to our church treasurer asking how we might fund the mother’s request. I also emailed two members who have expertise in law and housing.

On Wednesday morning, Daniel, our senior pastor, Brian Siegle, and our kids director, Jen Williams, dove deeper into the mother’s needs. In looking at documentation provided by the mother and the landlord, we had a number of questions. So, we reached back out to the landlord for some clarity. While his answers helped us, we continued to wrestle with our own internal debates.

We talked, thought more, considered our options, and gradually formulated a plan. The plan positioned the church to cover a portion of the debt. We also included a referral to a local nonprofit, ACTS, where the mother would receive counseling on how to more carefully manage her income. Perhaps, more importantly, the landlord approved of our plan, and canceled the court date.

Daniel followed up with the mother, and while she was temporarily relieved, the tough work of making this plan work was still in front of her.

I think our staff felt good about the potential of this plan to make a difference for the mother. And while I believe we learned from the situation, maybe the most important question is— what did we learn to help us prepare for the next person who makes a similar request?

This week, one of the devotion writers from the Upper Room cited this scripture from John 16:33: “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”

Sometimes, I think the greatest challenges we face in this world is overcoming ourselves.

As I was driving out to Pub Theology on Tuesday afternoon, I heard a story on National Public Radio about the primary in Maryland for a seat in the U. S. Senate. David Trone, a Maryland Congressman, and founder of Total Wine and More, has spent $40 million of his own money to attempt to win the nomination for the senate seat.

On that same Tuesday evening, Trone lost the primary election—$40 million dollars gone.

I thought about our mother who was behind in her rent. I wondered—how many mothers in arrears across America could Congressman David Trone helped with the $40 million he spent on a failed bid for a Senate seat?

Anyone with an ounce of common sense knows that our hearts are going to experience trouble in our walk through life.

But how much of that trouble comes from our inability to overcome ourselves?

What does it say about a society where we spend billions on our political campaigns, but continue to be unable to solve our longstanding problems related to mental and physical health, housing, safety, food instability, unemployment, and equity?

Out on Battleground Avenue North in Greensboro, North Carolina, the words “God Can” appear on the outside wall of the sanctuary at Charity Baptist Church.

When we visit our oldest daughter and her family in nearby Summerfield, those words always catch my attention as I drive by while running an errand.

Honestly, there are days in my life when I wonder if “God Can” anymore?

Have we given up on him?

Has God given up on us?

And then a day like Tuesday, May 14 will arrive.

Days like that are an opportunity for a staff to be guided and nudged by God.
God’s nudging led a staff to counter the troubles the mother was facing. Essentially, God led us to respond with the unexpected “yes.”

For those few hours of teamwork, I learned that God Can help us to overcome ourselves.